Updated: Apr 13
**WARNING!!**This is an adult Blog with real life shit.I won't apologize for the language or the jokes. If I didn't have a sense of humor about this,I'd probably go insane. If you get offended easily, This might not be the blog for you....you've been warned!****
So it's been a crazy ass ride up until this point.
IS this man my father??
FINALLY, I get a call from sister #3 - Natalie!
It's funny. There have been a few times in my life that I've wondered who my dad was. Was he bald? What was his favorite color... Even one time.. I really thought about what it would be to meet him. I never thought about it much. Didn't matter.
At least in my head I was somewhat prepared for a dad.... I WAS NOT PREPARED FOR SISTERS!
First off.. let's get the weirdness out of the way. All 3 of my sisters are super pretty.
Is that weird to say.. uh. YES!
BUT.. I could have only imagined what it would have been like growing up with these 3 ladies and the fights I would have had.
This whole scenario probably saved my from taking a few ass whoopin's over time as well. Blessing in disguise? You tell me.
Each of the sisters have COMPLETELY different personalities. I've never had sisters so all of this was a complete surprise. I have brothers. We are totally different, but I guess I really didn't think that through.
So sister #3 conversation was very similar to the other sisters.
I definitely cried a lot less on this one. By this time I had told my story a couple of times and got the jitters out of the way.
We talked about all of the normal stuff that you would think about in this scenario.
How crazy this shit was.. the family, kids, husband, job, siblings...
We talked for a couple of hours.
We made the joke that if this really was my dad.. and I was the 2nd kid to show up.. surely there's gotta be more of us, right?
I also asked about my potential brother "Aden". I hadn't really heard much about him and really wanted to know how this was going on in his head as well.
He was the only male in the group and I was curious how this whole thing was playing out in his head. Is it weird having a instant "big" brother? In Latin culture I would have been the first born and named after my dad.
That's gotta be weird right? My name would be completely different. Weird to take in.
She said that he was really just kind of laying low and was waiting for the DNA test to come out.
She said the magic words.. DNA TEST! I asked her... "Do you think that "Caballardo" will be willing to take the DNA test?" and she responded with "I dont think he has much of a choice at this point, but this is going to blow his mind".
The last thing she said was that all 4 of the siblings were going to approach "Dad" and tell him what was going on.. and of course they were going to get a DNA kit.
They are going to talk to him tonight and will let me know how it goes!